Showing posts with label essay. Show all posts
Showing posts with label essay. Show all posts

Oct 15, 2013

No Class

I guess it's been quite some time since I posted on this blog, which is hard to believe because I have a lot to say. I think I have a lot to say and then, MEH.
I'll get back to that.
Right now I am sitting at home, in my favorite chair, next to my bed, thinking about school. Should I stay or should I go? I say as much out loud and my ONLY response? My mom's dog looks at me with those eyes that say: "Oh you're going to school. What else're you going to do?"
She's right, of course, my mom's dog. I'm going to school today.
After all, this is FLORIDA, what else is there to do?
=P

Mar 6, 2013

Like a Horse and Carriage

The Marriage Settlement - William Hogarth
The idea of an arranged marriage has always intrigued me. No disrespect to those who have had their marriages arranged by their parents, an older relative or a matchmaker, it's just not a part of my particular culture.
I am sure, however, my parents wish that it was. Then they "wouldn't have to worry about me". Still, the logistics of being put together with a stranger by a third party and then the pressure of having that type of relationship succeed holds a certain fascination with me. I blame the romance novels I used to devour in secret when I was a kid. You know the ones with the sweaty heaving women pressed up against the hard. well-defined bodies of men with long, flowing and shiny hair. I know you know, but don't want to say.
(I digress.)
How uncomfortable is it for the marrying pair?!
Then the reasons for such unions vary. Economic, union of families, religion, the list is endless. Like in Hogarth's painting above. "The Marriage Settlement" one in a six-part series that pokes fun at 18th-century Upper Society, where the young people are being thrust upon each other, as arranged by their families, under a long list of terms and conditions with no consideration of the distaste the two obviously have for each other. The series is really a moralistic satire that depicts the disaster that comes from this ill-considered arrangement where money is involved.
To be sure, not all arranged marriages fail. Just like there is the possibility of failure, there a "growing up together" aspect to it that is quite sweet...
I imagine.